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Help! I Have Everything… But a Man.

Writer's picture: Cheron K. GriffinCheron K. Griffin

Ladies, let’s talk. You’ve got the degrees, the six-figure business (or close enough), the dream house, and a closet full of designer bags that could fund a small country. You’re checking all the boxes society told you to check. But here’s the plot twist—where is the man?

I mean, you’re out here being a boss, running boardrooms, making power moves, and yet… no one is sliding in your DMs with a ring emoji. What in the world is happening?

The Masculine Energy Takeover

Well, sis, let’s have a moment of real talk. You’re out here serving big boss energy 24/7—leading, strategizing, negotiating like you’re about to buy out Amazon. And while that’s fantastic in business, it’s giving ‘CEO of My Life, Don’t Need a Man’ vibes in relationships.

See, men—alpha men in particular—aren’t exactly lining up to date their corporate rival. The same energy that makes you dominate in the boardroom might be pushing men away in the bedroom (and everywhere else). Because let’s be real—you don’t need him… for anything. And while that sounds empowering on paper, it also leaves a man asking, “So what am I even here for?”

But I Don’t Want a Weak Man!

Oh, I hear you! Loud and clear. You’re not about to start dating a man who needs your credit card just to breathe. You want an alpha—a provider, a protector, a man who can lead.

But here’s the uncomfortable truth: Two alphas in a relationship? That’s just two people competing, not loving. Somebody has to fall back, and (deep sigh) if you want a masculine man, that someone is you.

I know, I know—"But Cheron, I don’t wanna dim my light!" And you shouldn’t! This isn’t about being weak or playing dumb. It’s about understanding polarity. Masculine men are naturally drawn to feminine energy. And if you’re out here out-masculining him, what’s left for him to do? Hold your purse?

Feminine Energy Isn’t Weak, It’s Magnetic

Let’s clarify something real quick—embracing feminine energy is not about giving up your power. It’s about shifting gears when necessary. Your man doesn’t want to date his business partner. He wants to date a woman. A soft, radiant, warm, inviting presence. A woman who lets him lead sometimes (without rolling her eyes into the next dimension).

It’s about receiving instead of always doing, allowing yourself to be courted, taken care of, and yes, maybe even letting him make some decisions without sending him a spreadsheet of why he’s wrong.

So, What’s the Solution?

I’m not saying quit your job and take up knitting (unless you want to). But if you’re serious about attracting a masculine, powerful man, here are a few things to try:

Stop competing with him – Let him win sometimes. It won’t kill you.

Be open to receiving – Love, help, gifts, compliments… all of it.

Turn down the control meter – You don’t need to plan every date down to the appetizer. Let him take the wheel.

Lead with warmth, not aggression – Your business partners might need that cutthroat energy. Your man? Not so much.

Give him space to provide – He wants to feel needed, even if you technically don’t need him to survive.

At the end of the day, the goal is balance. You can be a boss and still be soft. You can be independent and still let a man lead. The question is—are you willing to?

Or do you want to keep having deep conversations with your Birkin bag while another "less accomplished" woman gets the man you’ve been praying for?

Your move, sis.

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Your Man is Waiting… But Are You Ready to Receive Him?


Listen, sis. You can keep running the same play—dominating in business but struggling in love—or you can shift your approach and finally attract the kind of man who complements your success instead of competing with it.

If this blog had you side-eyeing your own habits (it’s okay, self-awareness is sexy), then it’s time to take the next step. That’s exactly why I created Manifesting My Man Masterclass—because having everything but a man doesn’t have to be your reality.

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Cheron K. Griffin,

Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach




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